I love that people find movies seminal in their lives and they consider them good friends. Stories have a way of changing the way we see the world or of saying something we believe in a new way that resonates inside of us so profoundly that we can never think about a subject without thinking about that story. I can honestly say that To Kill a Mockingbird and The Lord of the Rings (both the novels and movies) have affected my ethics so that I think of Atticus Finch or Frodo when facing a tough decision.

Every so often a movie comes out that seems to garner near universal praise and adulation from people I know, and yet it doesn’t work for me. Sometimes I can’t stand the film. Usually, I like the movie just ok, but for various reasons, I don’t like it as much as other people. This is a touchy subject because we take those stories that transform us very personally. Thus, a disclaimer: I may say I missed the boat on your movie, but I’m not saying I think you’re a bad person or less than me for liking it as much as you do.

  1. The Matrix [d. Wachowski brothers, 1999]
  2. Gladiator [d. Scott, 2000]
  3. Life is Beautiful [d. Benigni, 1998]
  4. Whale Rider [d. Caro, 2002]
  5. Chicago [d. Marshall, 2002]
  6. Training Day [d. Fuqua, 2001]
  7. Napoleon Dynamite [d. Hess, 2004]

I can elaborate further if you’d like, or if you’d prefer just to call me a heartless idiot, feel free.